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"Now tell me, what game are you playing?"

 

I am in this Facebook group about investing, two years ago, everybody was talking about bitcoin, real estate and Airbnb. It seems like these are generational opportunities to make big bucks in a short period of time. While I am sure some people have made significant gains through speculation or through selling courses to teach people how to speculate/get rich fast, many others have incurred substantial losses. I call this the fashion trend of investing, it tends to be short lived, I haven't heard people talking about crypto mining for a while.


I recently read the famous lecture/essay "Acres of Diamonds" by Russell Conwell, the founder of Temple University. The central idea of the work is that one need not look elsewhere for opportunity, achievement, or fortune; the resources to achieve all good things are present in one's own community. This theme is developed by a series of anecdotes, many of which are drawn from Conwell's own experience.


I don't necessarily agree entirely with his perspective. As a first-generation immigrant who arrived in the land of opportunities as a young student and later changed my career in my late twenties, I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have actively pursued opportunities that have led me to my current position. If you are a HENRY (High Earner, Not Rich Yet) now, it's likely because your field is thriving, and you've already discovered your 'diamond.' Concentrate on your current path; there's no need to chase after the next big thing or seek a quick route to wealth.


My experience with market timing and stock picking has been far from successful. As a poor student years ago, I ventured into market speculation and initially experienced what seemed like beginner's luck. However, this soon led to a constant and emotionally taxing need to monitor the market. I spent a considerable amount of time analyzing market trends, macro and micro factors, and reading books on the subject, only to eventually lose not only all my gains but some more. This experience has taught me that the market is not as predictable as one might hope, and I, for one, certainly don’t possess the talent to forecast it, I don't think anyone does. That's why I am not surprised at all to see that Gen Z are actively trading more than any other generations . Based on my observations, these group of people tend to buy in the get rich fast scheme and speculate the market

- The young and poor, they normally don't have much to lose and quick wealth is very appealing. Social media plays a important role here too.

- The middle aged and wearied, when they start to question their achievements and life choices, or when they are tired of their current job/profession and entertaining the idea of FIRE, they tend to change their risk-taking behavior.

- The old and poor, when they have the "oh shit" moment and realize time is against them, it's normal to have a desire to 'catch up' or make significant financial gains quickly to compensate for perceived inadequacies or past mistakes.

- The gamblers, speculating can trigger the release of dopamine, same as gambling, that's highly addicting.


1) I invest in myself and my own business which have consistently yield the best return;

2) I maintain an emergency fund sufficient to cover one year of personal expenses and six months of business expenses; These are invested as a US treasury ladder or CD ladder.

3) I invest in low cost index funds for my kids education and our retirement (tax advantaged accounts are fully funded first);

4) I have a written financial plan that I review with my wife quarterly. We follow the plan and do not make major financial decisions without mutual agreement.


Considering even wall street fund mangers struggle to outperform the market, is it worth it for us to try to speculate? According to SPIVA study, over 15 years, a mere of 6.6% actively managed fund outperformed S&P 500. Factoring in the high expense ratios of these funds, the odds of outperforming the market are definitely not in your favor.

1 year

5 years

10 years

15 years

Underperform S&P 500

51%

87%

91%

93.4%

Outperform S&P 500

49%

13%

9%

6.6%

data from spiva scorecard as of 12/31/2022


So what are your goals, strategies, rules, and boundaries, have you found your diamond and what game are you playing?



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Hello, I am a HENRY myself. My journey began with the realization that, despite earning a significant income, I was struggling to accumulate wealth due to the many financial pressures that come with this stage of life - student loans, kids, cars, and mortgage. It seems like us millennials were born at the worst time to be middle-aged workhorses for society. I found myself juggling multiple financial responsibilities at once, appearing successful on the surface, but not feeling happy.


I created this website as a platform to document my own journey towards financial independence and happiness and to share the lessons I have learned along the way. I believe that with the right plan, discipline, and mindset, it is possible for HENRYs to overcome these challenges and achieve financial success. Ultimately, it's not even about the money; it's about finding happiness and a sense of peace.


Lately, my wife and I have been making a conscious effort to eliminate as much noise as possible from our lives. The act of social comparison is incredibly draining and frustrating. Regardless of how much money you earn, there will always be individuals who earn more, appear happier, and even their kids seem to be more well-behaved than yours. "Run your own race" is a mantra we repeat to ourselves daily, but focusing on our own goals is a struggle. We both possess a competitive streak, which has propelled us to stand out and reach our current positions, but it's a double-edged sword. It is also a curse that hinders our pursuit of peace and happiness.


In the spirit of "running our own race," we decided to create this platform. It’s a space for us to share our journey, the highs and the lows, and everything we learn along the way. But it’s also a space for you, fellow HENRYs, to share your stories, your struggles, and your victories. Together, we can support one another in our individual journeys towards financial independence, happiness, and peace. It's not about competing with each other, but about helping each other to find the best versions of ourselves. Thank you for being here, and for taking the first step towards running your own race.

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